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These are the 10 burning questions you always asked yourself about self-confidence. Get the answers you’re looking for and get ready to build your boldest self!

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✓ Should I read this? You may have asked yourself questions about self-confidence. If you’re interested in finally get them answered, then this article is for you! If you’re just curious to know more about self-confidence, this will also interest you 🙂
✓ How is it going to help me? By learning more about self-confidence, you’ll be more familiar with the subject and you’ll be able to build this skill. The result will be you being more self-confident 🙂 so it’s definitely going to help you 😉

All your self-confidence questions finally being answered!

10 questions about self confidence 

You’ve been asking yourself questions about self-confidence, but you don’t want to spend all day googling and finding the answers yourself.

I’ve compiled all the burning questions that I’ve received from my readers into one single post!

With this post, you’ll get a more general understanding of self-confidence and all of its components.

Are you ready?

Let’s discover these 10 burning questions everybody’s asking about self-confidence:

1. How can I be more self-confident?
2. How to build self-confidence?
3. What is self-confidence?
4. Why self-confidence is important?
5. Where does self-confidence come from?
6. Where is my self-confidence?
7. Can you fake self-confidence?
8. Can self-confidence lead to success?
9. Can meditation increase self-confidence?
10. Why self-confidence may be low?

The questions answered

1. How can I be more self-confident?

I receive this question in my emails A LOT.

And I’m not really receiving questions that ask how to be more self-confident in general, but more in specific situations of our life.

So I’ve been working lately on a course that will teach you how to be more self-confident in a particular context each time (with your friends, at work, when you first meet someone, dating with confidence…).

In the end, it won’t be vague lessons and trying to cheer you up! But really practical tips and solutions to problems you’ve been facing when it comes to showing your boldest self in your everyday life and in specific situations.

So, make sure to leave your email address, I’ll let you know the moment the course will be out 🙂

So, to answer this question very quickly, everybody can become more self-confident.

I truly believe that each and every one of us has the ability to feel great about who we really are!

My personal experience has taught me that everything we need to become more self-confident is already somewhere inside of us.

See my answer to question 2 to know how to build an unshakable self-confidence 🙂

2. How to build self-confidence?

Since it’s already somewhere inside of us, everybody can become more self-confident, I have absolutely no doubts about this.

The way to build it looks like this:

1. Be aware of wanting to become more self-confident. The moment we become more self-aware, we are already halfway because we’re taking care of the problem that we want to solve.

2. Learn tips and tricks on how to feel more self-confident in specific situations of your life. A lot of courses will tell you how to be more self-confidence in your life in general, but it’s not exactly what you’re looking for. You would like to feel more confident in specific situations of your life and this is what I’ll be teaching. I’ve been looking for something like this back then and from now on, you don’t need to look for it, I’m creating something exactly as I’ve always been looking for 🙂

3. Self-confidence is a skill. So over time and with practice, you’ll build this self-confidence and you’ll feel happier and more secure every day of your life.

4. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? If you’re starting today to build this self-confidence, you will be in a completely different place and mindset in 5 years from now :), I’m telling you, just reading these lines, you’re already halfway 😉

5. Enjoy the process while waiting for the results 😉 it will considerably CHANGE YOUR LIFE!

Just doing a quick flashback.

4-5 years ago, I started getting interested in self-confidence. I wanted to stop comparing myself to others and to feel better who I truly was.

But honestly, I didn’t know at all where to start!? What book to read? What course to take?

I thought of knowing myself better and then developing my self-confidence, but again, I had no strategy, no idea on how/where to start!

So again, just to tell you that you’re not alone 🙂 I’ve been there, I know exactly where you are and where you want to go.

3. What is self-confidence?

Self-confidence is a skill that can make you feel AMAZING being the person that you truly are.

I LOVED this article that is listing the 8 components of like they call it, true inner self-confidence!

I created a chart for you to understand easily all the components part of being really self-confident:

As you can see, self-confidence is kind of a “mix” of all these 8 components.

I’m not sure that I would say that there is one that is more important than the others, but it’s interesting to think which one you feel like you would need help with! It’s already a great start 🙂

Now that you can see that there are many components, it confirmed that everything is inside of you, and that you “just” need to take it out 🙂

4. Why self-confidence is important? 

Having self-confidence and feeling self-confident helps to feel amazing being who we really are.

With everything existing in society today, it’s sometimes hard to feel good just with being who we are. But we actually don’t need anything but ourselves to feel really good!

Also, being self-confident makes us accomplish things we wouldn’t accomplish because we would be afraid or having a lot of self-doubts.

As I said it, self-confidence is somewhere inside of us and finding it and using it every day of our life will make us feel amazing and fulfilled 🙂

5. Where does self-confidence come from? 

I truly believe that each and every one of us has the ability to feel great about who we really are!

My personal experience has taught me that everything we need to become more self-confident is already somewhere inside of us.

Tips, tricks, ideas, and examples come from the outside.

But the resources come from our inner self 🙂 we all have the possibility to develop this precious skill and I wish we would learn this at school!

6. Where is my self-confidence?

Your self-confidence is somewhere inside of you!

You have all the inner resources to feel more self-confident.

I know that this may sound easier in theory than in practice, but it’s true!

I’ll be there for you, to help you feel more self-confident, I’ve been there and I know what you need to discover to feel more self-confidence in specific situations of your life.

You “just” need to find the resources and power inside of you and this is where I can help you 🙂

I’m writing “just” like this because I know that it won’t be easy, but let me tell you that it will only get better in time. Being aware is already going to help you a lot 🙂

7. Can you fake self-confidence?

They say “fake it until you make it”, so you can definitely fake self-confidence.

And faking it may help you become more self-confident 😉

But it isn’t always something easy to do. But you can definitely bluff a bit to grow your self-confidence!

Look at this great post that is giving you advice on how to “Fake it ‘til You Make it“.

He’s giving information about body language and how starting by faking being confident with your body will actually increase your self-confidence. Interesting!

8. Can self-confidence lead to success?

Totally!

The more you are self-confident, the mort you’ll be a magnet to success 🙂

It will help you any aspect of your life which will make your more successful. But what does it mean to be more successful actually, to you?

Think about it and then, have a look at this post that I wrote about the habits of successful people.

Related article:

15 Habits Of Extremely Successful People

9. Can meditation increase self-confidence?

Absolutely 🙂

Being more centered on yourself, feeling a deeper connection to yourself, these are just 2 small examples of how much meditation can increase self-confidence.

Basically, the more you will feel good being who you truly are, the more self-confident you’re going to be.

So meditation can definitely be a great method for you to develop this skill!

Also, meditation has so many benefits that you will enjoy a lot of other great benefits including focus, relaxation, self-care habit, quiet time… Check the effects it had on me, I’m talking about it in this post about the immediate results of meditation!

Related article:

How To Meditate (And Get Immediate Results)

10. Why self-confidence may be low? 

We never learned it at school… 🙁 unfortunately!

So it’s completely possible that you don’t feel too self-confident and let me tell you this: it’s 100% NORMAL 🙂

So many people out there feel like this and starting by being aware of it is already a huge step, let me tell you this!

To sum up!

You’re now more familiar with self-confidence.

As I said it, being aware of wanting to be more self-confident is already making you be halfway 😉 you’re doing great!

Keep on following what I have to say to build it and to be in the know about tips and other tricks on being the most self-confident person you know 😉

Do you have other questions about self-confidence? Ask them in the comment section and I will gladly answer them!

You may also be interested in…

• Self-Esteem & Self-Confidence, What’s the Difference?
• What Are Your Needs In Life And How To Take Care Of Them
• 15 Habits Of Extremely Successful People
• Comparing Yourself To Others: The 10 Things You Will Want To Hear

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