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If you’re not confident, you’re missing out!
Confidence can set you FREE!
Free of people’s judgments and approval.
Free to be your true self.
Free to be and do whatever you want with yourself and your life!
Let’s get into idea #1…
The particularity of a newborn…
Think of a newborn that you saw in your life, doesn’t matter whose newborn it was or when it was.
Imagine the way you and everybody around were looking at him/her.
What do you see on people’s faces?
A lot of love, tenderness, and affection, right?
When holding this cutie baby, you probably were very careful not to break it, right?
This is everything: We value this little new human being SO MUCH when he’s so tiny and didn’t do or accomplish anything!
Why is that?
Because we are in admiration of nature!
Of how it just came into our world, this baby is so vulnerable, you feel like taking it in your arms!
You want to tell him how cute he is, you want to reassure him, telling him that everything will be okay, he shouldn’t worry, and that he is simply exceptional!
You’re still this newborn!
Okay so now that we saw how much we value and absolutely love a new little human being like a newborn, tell me what’s the difference with an adult…
NOT TOO MUCH!
The adult is still this little human being, it’s still the same!
With its vulnerability and most important, his worth and value in everybody’s eyes.
Why aren’t we treating others and ourselves the very same way we’re treating a newborn?
Some people may say that it’s because we grow up and old and we are not as nice and sweet as this little newborn but still, we used to be a newborn and we forgot it.
You don’t need anybody else’s approval…
I always say that we don’t need anybody else’s approval actually.
Our own approval is all that we truly need.
You were this little newborn that people were looking at and seeing all of his cuteness and worth.
You are still cute, you are still worth it.
Remember: The little baby we absolutely fall in love with didn’t do anything, he/she accomplished absolutely nothing except being alive (if that’s an accomplishment maybe!).
You are 100% worth it.
No one can take this away from you!
What do you need help with?
(Choose between the 2 options)
You’re like a newborn!
This is why I want you to think just as if you were this newborn again.
You came into this world without doing anything, and completely worthy.
Imagine yourself that tiny and that vulnerable.
You were loved just because you were there!
Today, as much as you don’t need anybody to feed you, change you, play with you, you don’t need anybody to make you feel worthy.
Give yourself this love!
No need to say anything, to accomplish something, you are just worthy because you are here.
To sum up!
Your next action is thinking of seeing a newborn for the very first time.
What do you think of that little human being?
Now, give yourself the love, the admiration, the affection, that you’re ready to give to this brand new little human.
He for sure deserved your tenderness, but you deserve your own even more!
What do you think about that?
You’re like a newborn!
Love yourself unconditionally, you’re worthy and you’re amazing!
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