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I’m going to be your coach today which will be more helpful than any advice you got until today…
You’re going to be okay, don’t worry!
Let’s dive right in, you’ve waited enough!
(If you’re not so much into dating, stay because you’re going to see the magic of life coaching!)
You want a romantic relationship…
You see everyone around you is in a romantic relationship and you want that too!
But you’ve been thinking that…
- It’s though out there…!
- Meeting people and dating is HARD!
- Because of COVID, it’s even harder to feel love…
And… You’ve been trying!
You cannot really explain why but… It’s just not working for you!
You talk with a few guys and then, that person disappears, but you were totally okay!
You have no idea what went wrong!
I totally FEEL you and GET you!
I’ve been coaching many beautiful women on this and I’ve discovered that this can help A LOT…
Why you’re the reason you’re not in a relationship yet…
No matter what result we have in our life (being married or not, having a diploma or not, feeling great or not) is always because of the THOUGHTS we are thinking.
Everything that you see around you, everything that is in your life right now is because of THOUGHTS that you had and/or are currently having.
And this includes being in a romantic relationship or not.
Why? Because of the thoughts, you’re thinking!
Before the date, during the date, after the date, you’re thinking thoughts that make you feel a certain way and from that feeling, you are showing up a certain way.
Let me give you an example:
Sara really wants to be in a relationship. She’s been dating for a while and knows what she wants.
She has beautiful thoughts such as “I have so much love to give” and “a romantic relationship sounds super fun to me”.
When she’s thinking those thoughts, she feels emotions of “love” and maybe “excited”.
This makes her show up joyful, excited, and in the present moment.
At the same time, she has different kinds of thoughts (not better or less good! They’re just thoughts!) such as:
- Dating is hard.
- I’m not sure I’ll find somebody…
- Everyone else is in a relationship but me…
When Sara thinks those thoughts, she feels emotions such as “hopeless, frustrated, discouraged”.
When she’s feeling this way, Sara is showing up like this: She’s distant, she’s in her head, she actually doesn’t look like someone fun to be around…!
But again, there’s no right or wrong here, it’s really more a way to understand what is going on.
Stay with me! And discover what this is actually AMAZING news!
Why it is AMAZING NEWS!
I heard beautiful clients telling me that “it’s not my fault if I’m single, guys are just idiots” or “I’m really trying everything, it’s just not working for me…”.
As you can see when you hear those sentences, you can only feel sorry for Sara, it all sounds like she’s the victim of not being in a relationship… Poor her, she’s been trying so hard though! And it’s just those guys that are being idiots…
This is what an empathetic friend would tell her…
But… What if something else is true?! Maybe truer and that could finally help Sara find love?
Sara is actually responsible for not being in a relationship! Because she’s thinking those thoughts!
And I know that some of you will get mad at me and tell me that I lack empathy (and empathy is an essential value to me), but we agree with what Sara is saying, we are also agreeing with the sadness of her life: From what she’s saying, it looks like it’s all happening to her and that, bottom line, there’s NOTHING she can do about it?!
Whaaaat?? Not at all!
This is why I’m saying that she’s responsible for being single at this exact moment: She’s giving all of her life dreams and control over her life to those “idiots” and to the sentence “it simply doesn’t work for me…”.
But when she discovers that her thoughts make her show up a certain way and that these thoughts are OPTIONAL and not necessarily TRUE, she can get all of her power back!
And how do you do that practically?!
You help her look at those thoughts! And you discuss the veracity of them!
Again, Sara doesn’t need to be fixed. She’s perfect the way she is. She doesn’t need to be controlled or anything.
It’s just that as a life coach, it’s my job to show her the thoughts she’s having and to see if it’s helping her find a romantic relationship or not!
So, it’s amazing news to discover that she has control over her life and this starts by paying attention to what she’s thinking!
Imagine 2 Saras!
Explained in a different way:
Imagine being on a date with the first Sara that thinks thoughts that I shared before such as:
- Dating is hard.
- I’m not sure I’ll find somebody…
- Everyone else is in a relationship but me…
Imagine how she is during the date.
What she BELIEVES in is showing up in the way she’s sitting, the way she’s talking… You cannot lie what’s going on inside of you! 🙂
Then, imagine Sara number 2 having thoughts such as shared before:
- I have so much love to give!
- A romantic relationship sounds super fun to me!
- I’m ready to find love!
How do you think is your time hanging out with this Sara on a date?
Is it somehow a different behavior of showing up…?
Is it maybe a way that may help Sara find love easier…?
Looks like the complaining thoughts and hopeless ones aren’t helping her too much…!
Maybe it’s time to try something else! 🙂
Your next action… The formula!
I have a proven formula that will help you find love in 6 months or less.
And it’s starts exactly like with Sara: Together, we are discovering what thoughts you might be thinking that may you show up a certain way.
Again, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you and there’s nothing wrong with where you are right now.
It’s all happening exactly how it’s supposed to happen, it’s all part of the process.
Also, every emotion is valid and is true: You may feel hopeless, sad, frustrated and those are real emotions!
And here I want to offer something else: What if discovering what you are thinking WILL help you in finding love?
Would you be interested?
It’s like the magic lamp of Aladin!
If you could use it to find love, won’t you want to use it?!
This is how I can help you! There is a formula and I’m 150% sure that it can work for you too. I believe enough for you and me! 🙂
If you’re curious to know more, reach out to me!
I find this work fascinating and I truly wish this would exist many years ago as I was struggling myself…!
To sum up!
As you can see, life coaching can help you find love.
It’s amazing NEWS that YOU are the reason why you’re not in a relationship YET!
You get all of your power back!
Starting now, YES YOU CAN have full control over your life and it all starts with the thoughts you’re thinking!
So… Are you ready for this? 🙂
