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As a confidence coach, of course, I want to help you feel more confident!
But I want you to consider something else too…
What if a lack of confidence wouldn’t be a problem to start with…?
Let’s dive right in, I wouldn’t want you to stay in suspense all of this time!!
A lack of confidence…?
Of course I believe that feeling true confidence is an amazing feeling!
No matter what life throws at you, you’ll be able to handle anything because you have your own back!!
So just for this, it’s a fun thing to have (confidence!).
And also, the experience with me (getting coached by me!) is a total FUN experience too I believe!!
That being said, I also believe that it’s okay to not feel super confident 100% of the time…!
Sometimes, we’ll lack confidence and it’s okay…
Even the most confident person we can think of in the world… Lack some confidence from time to time.
Why you ask? Because it’s our primitive brain that always thinks that if we do something unfamiliar, our brain thinks that we are at risk of DYING!!
So it will do anything to stop you which is the kind of thoughts such as “You’re not going to succeed”, “you’re not meant for this!”…
And even if these very confident people lack confidence from time to time, it doesn’t stop them from living an extraordinary life and reaching any goals that they set, right?
So, let’s embrace this temporary lack of confidence and let’s welcome it with open arms!
The GOOD thing about lacking confidence…
If we completely stretch our brains: What are the upsides of not feeling too confident sometimes…?
Think about it for a minute!
It could be:
- To question for a second if we could do it a different way
- To look on the inside if it’s really something we want to do (the action we’re planning to take)
- To recognize that our brain is functioning perfectly and think that we’re going to die so let’s at least say that it is 100% working perfectly and we can only thank it for doing its job!!
- To use as an opportunity to love ourselves more and not to beat ourselves up… To accept that sometimes, as confident as we feel, we WILL lack a bit of confidence!
- To remember that insecurity or any form of this lack can be in the backup seat, it’s okay it’s there!! WE choose what we want our predominant emotion to be and we don’t make insecurity or this lack of confidence means anything…!
In summary…
As you can see and I’m the first one to say it: Building our confidence is essential.
It helps in living in integrity with yourself, your decisions and genuinely feeling at peace on the inside.
AND it’s totally possible to live this life AND to feel insecure or this lack of confidence sometimes.
It’s so eye-opening to see the GOOD in feeling insecure and it’s only proving again and again that we HAVE emotions, we are NOT our emotions.
And if you feel like you’re really struggling with this and you feel like it’s too hard not to be offended or mad when someone shares a remark or a comment, TALK TO ME! 🙂
You don’t have to suffer alone from this emotional pain!!
You feel triggered, nothing has gone wrong! 🙂
Let me help you empower yourself!!
Let’s have control over your reactions and emotions.
You’ll see, you won’t have to change what someone says for you to feel better!
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Let’s have some fun!! 🙂
