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Dating, Uncomplicated.

Tired of wondering if someone will choose you? Learn to date without losing YOURSELF in the process!

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  • 10 lessons + a Bonusin 3 parts
  • About 1.5 hoursof video in total
  • “Your turn!”in every lesson
  • Watch anytimeat your own pace

Does this sound like you?

You’re ready for love… so why does dating feel SO exhausting?

  • You open the dating app, sigh… and part of you just wants to give up.
  • Everyone around you seems to find love SO easily. And you wonder: “Why not me?”
  • On a date, you play the “perfect” version of you. Then you go home wondering if they’d like the REAL you.
  • They haven’t texted back. You check your phone again. And again. And AGAIN.
  • Two great dates, and you’re already picturing your whole future together.
  • Someone stops replying, and suddenly you wonder what’s wrong with YOU.
  • You keep falling for people who just can’t give you what you want.
  • After a date, you have no idea if you even LIKE them. You just hope they liked you.
  • You’d love to say what you want… but you stay quiet, so you don’t scare them away.
  • Keep seeing them or walk away? You go back and forth for weeks.

Nodded even once? You’re in the RIGHT place! 🙂

Nothing is wrong with you. And YES, dating can feel light again!

Dating doesn’t have to feel this way

This course doesn’t teach you how to GET someone. It teaches you how to date without losing yourself in the process.

Before
  • Dating feels exhausting, confusing and emotionally consuming.
  • You’re constantly wondering whether someone will choose you.
After
  • You enjoy meeting people.
  • You trust yourself.
  • You handle uncertainty and rejection.
  • You confidently choose what’s right for YOU!

Dating isn’t about convincing someone to choose you. It’s about discovering whether you want to choose each other.

Tamara

Dating isn’t about…

  • getting someone to like you
  • choosing the perfect person
  • making sure you never get hurt

It’s about…

  • enjoying getting to know people
  • being yourself
  • trusting yourself to figure things out along the way

What’s inside

Everything you need to enjoy dating AND stay true to YOU!

A Welcome video, then 10 lessons in 3 parts, and a Bonus.

Tamara smiling and pointing at her poster of the Model: circumstances, thoughts, feelings, actions, results
Lesson 1 starts with

The Model

The one simple tool you’ll use in EVERY lesson.

See how your thoughts create your feelings, your actions and your results. Change the thought, change your dating life!

WelcomeWelcome to Dating, Uncomplicated.
Part 1

Make dating enjoyable again

  1. Lesson 1What to do when you’re tired of dating and feel like giving up
  2. Lesson 2What to do when you feel like everyone else is finding love except you
  3. Lesson 3What to do when you’re afraid to be yourself on dates
Part 2

Stop letting dating take over your head

  1. Lesson 4What to do when someone doesn’t text you back and you start overthinking EVERYTHING
  2. Lesson 5What to do when you really like someone and get attached too quickly
  3. Lesson 6What to do when someone rejects you and you start questioning your worth
Part 3

Trust yourself and choose what YOU want

  1. Lesson 7What to do when you keep liking people who don’t give you what you want
  2. Lesson 8What to do when you’re not sure whether you actually LIKE someone
  3. Lesson 9What to do when you’re afraid to express what you want or need while dating
  4. Lesson 10What to do when you’re not sure whether to keep dating someone or walk away
Bonus

What to do when you want to find love but don’t want dating to take over your life

In every lesson

“Your turn!” in every lesson

One small practice, so it doesn’t just stay in your head. You LIVE it!

Your own Model, right under the video

Private notes for every lesson, so you can try it on YOUR dating life.

Your toolbox

My charts and PDFs, like the Model, right under every lesson. Download them and keep them!

Captions on every video

Switch them on or off, just as you like.

Watch anytime

On your phone or computer, at your own pace. Come back to a lesson whenever dating brings that moment!

What my fabulous clients are saying…

Real messages from my private coaching clients. The same tools are waiting for you in this course!

  • Email from a client: Hi Tamara! Something that is crazy is that before coaching, I didn't believe I could change. I thought I would just always be this way: stuck, unsure, and holding back. The session today really showed me that it's not going to be like this forever!! I now feel EMPOWERED, more confident and I'm actually excited about life! Coaching helped me stop surviving and start living, finally! Thank you.
  • WhatsApp message from a client: I thought about this so much!! I remember that I was soooo tired of constantly worrying about what people thought of me. It held me back in so many ways! And I didn't even realize how much! Now I feel more FREE! I'm making choices for me and NOT to please others. I wish I had done this sooner. It's been a total mindset shift!
  • WhatsApp message from a client: I can't believe only a week ago I used to overthink sooooo muchhhh... I was mentally exhausted so, I'm truly thankful I tried coaching! I just wish that I would have tried before 🙂
  • Email from a client: Tamara, I want to thank you for all that you do. I am serious. Before reading your posts and getting coached, I used to think all day long: "Is this as good as life gets?! There really isn't much to life!" I can't believe that I now wake up and, as you say, I feel "purposeful"! I am truly excited about everyday life and the future!! And that's crazy when you think about it, it all started with 1 post that I saw...
  • Email from a client: Honestly, I was tired of overthinking every little thing. I just wanted to feel calm and trust myself for once! After working with you, I feel lighter, more grounded, and I actually sleep better! I'm really thankful. Coaching really WORKS! You have to try it, absolutely!
  • WhatsApp message from a client: I remember that I felt like life was just passing me by and I was on autopilot! Deep down, I knew I wanted more but fear always got in the way. Looking back, after coaching, I feel more in control and I'm finally taking action on what matters. This process helped me believe in what's actually possible for me. I recommend coaching to anyone.
Tamara laughing in a pink t-shirt under a tree

Hi!! I’m Tamara.

I’m a certified life coach, and I’ve been helping people feel lighter since 2015. In dating too! 🙂

I met my husband almost 13 years ago. We were from different countries, different cultures. If one of us had asked right away, “Do you want a serious relationship?”, we would BOTH have said no… and missed the amazing relationship we have today!

I truly believe the universe has better plans for me than I do. And honestly? It found me somebody even better than I expected.

  • 1,500+hours coached
  • 300+clients helped
  • 85k+followers
  • 50+media features
  • Certified FOUR times! 🙂
  • ECDPro coaching school, Geneva, 2015
  • Institut Français d'Appreciative Inquiry, Paris, 2016
  • The Life Coach School, 2022
  • World Coach Institute, 2023

Dating, Uncomplicated.

Everything you get:

  • 10 video lessons in 3 parts + a BonusAbout 1.5 hours, at your own pace
  • The Model, right from Lesson 1The one simple tool you’ll use in EVERY lesson
  • “Your turn!” practice in every lesson
  • Your own Model and private notes for every lesson
  • Your toolbox: my charts and PDFs
  • Captions on every video, watch anytime on your phone or computer
  • Easy, practical tools to date without losing YOURSELF!

The whole course

$197

One payment. Start today!

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Want my help with YOUR situation? At checkout, you can add a private coaching session with me, 60 minutes, for $97.

Better together!

Any 2 courses for $394 $347. Add Life, Uncomplicated. or Confidence, Uncomplicated.

All 3 courses that are open now for $591 $497. Choose all 3

Questions?

Here are the ones I hear the most. Still wondering? Send me a message

Who is this course for?

For you if dating feels exhausting, confusing and takes over your head. You keep wondering whether someone will choose you, and you’d LOVE to enjoy meeting people, trust yourself and choose what’s right for YOU!

Do I need to be dating right now?

Nope! Whether you’re dating a lot, taking a little break or thinking about starting again, you can start today. Your lessons are there whenever you need them.

Is it only for women?

Not at all! Woman or man, if you date, you’re SO welcome here. 🙂

Should I take Life, Uncomplicated. first?

You can start with either one! Life, Uncomplicated. gives you tools for every part of your life. Dating, Uncomplicated. goes deeper into ONE thing: dating without losing yourself. Each course works on its own, and together they cost $347 instead of $394.

When can I start?

Right away! The moment you pay, I email you your link, and you can watch your first lesson TODAY, on your phone, tablet or computer. 🙂

Is it a subscription?

Nope! One payment of $197 for the whole course. No subscription, no surprises.

Is this therapy?

No. This is coaching: simple, practical tools for everyday life. It doesn’t replace therapy. If you’re going through something really hard, or the worry never leaves you, please also reach out to a doctor or a therapist.

What if I’d love some personal help too?

I’m right here! Have a look at my private coaching: Ask Me Anything on WhatsApp, or three private sessions with me. See my coaching

Ready to date without losing yourself?

I’m SO excited that you are here. We’re gonna have a blast!

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Let’s just dive in! Tamara