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You probably know someone who is super self-confident.
You may think that they were born with it, that it’s part of their personality! But it’s not! 🙂
It’s a skill to develop and you can too become super self-confident.
In this post, I’m going to share with you one GREAT TIP to help you build your self-confidence.
In fact, I realized that after sharing this tip, clients, friends, and people I know told me that it really helped them…!
So let me show you how it can help you too!!
Self-confidence isn’t succeeding at everything you do…
We tend to believe that every self-confident person is succeeding at everything they do.
This s a big misconception.
When you think about it, you don’t really know what a person has been through!
Everyone is facing positive and negative emotions, fails and successes, but not everybody is talking about all of them.
What I want to say here is that we are all the same in the end! 🙂
The difference is that a confident person knows that they will be okay no matter what.
They do fail from time to time like anybody else, the difference is that they are determined and committed because they truly believe in themselves and in their abilities.
So, being self-confident isn’t about succeeding in everything you do. It’s about knowing that you will be okay no matter what!
It’s about taking action too…
A self-confident person is taking action consistently. And this is the hardest! 🙂
To be consistent with something, to keep on taking action even when we don’t want it to… Even when we are tired, sad, unmotivated…
As I already shared with you when you take action you have two consequences: The results that you want or feedback.
As you can see, you have nothing to lose to try!
If you don’t get the success that you really wanted, you got feedback.
You know what doesn’t work and you can now focus on what could work and maybe try something different.
This makes the difference between someone who is self-confident and someone that is not.
The tip: Self-confidence is knowing that you will be okay, even if now, you don’t have everything figured out yet.
Self-confident people are not different than you!
They weren’t born with it because self-confidence is a skill that anybody can develop.
A self-confident person doesn’t have everything figured out yet! 🙂
They are determined that they know what they want from life. And they are failing from time to time but they’re never questioning their future success! 🙂
I want to tell you that first, I hear you! 🙂
It’s okay if you don’t have everything figured out yet, if you are not sure what direction to take, what’s your next decision, do not worry!
You will figure it out, you will be okay no matter what! 🙂
I want you to trust that if you take action consistently, you’ll get there FOR SURE! 🙂
What do you need help with?
(Choose between the 2 options)
What to do about it!
What you need to do is in the first place, discover what you really like in life.
And you know that you would be okay no matter what! You don’t need to have everything figured out yet! 🙂
Being self-confident is really about being determined and committed to living a life with embracing negative and positive emotions and the most important, not making failing mean anything.
Remember that when you take an action and you don’t get the results that you want, it’s simply feedback!
An example of self-confidence
I understand that all of this may sound a bit theoretical.
Let me give you a quick example! 🙂
Let’s imagine that you have a career plan in life, you want to become the manager of a firm. Or let’s imagine that you want to have beautiful, healthy and smart kids. Maybe you want to share your life with someone else!
All of this could mean to you, being successful, because you would have reached all of your dreams! 🙂
And I want you to be self-confident EVERY DAY of your life while getting there.
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Then, I want you to take action as often as possible towards this life that you want.
Take different actions at work, go on more dates or improve the current relationship that you have!
No matter what, take action and see how it goes.
It won’t work each time you try, but I want you to keep on trying, doing your best.
Be your best self and I can assure you that the more you’re going to take action, the less you will make failing mean anything because you will get used to being determined and committed to your dream life! 🙂
But today, you may not have everything figured out and that’s 100% okay!
You don’t need to know everything to advance to be happy right here, right now.
Try to enjoy the journey while reaching all the goals that you set for yourself! 🙂
You will feel less stress and less pressure!
I wanted to share all of this with you because I know that we can put a lot of stress and pressure on our shoulders.
You want to live a life that you love and it totally makes sense! But I want you to still feel good while living it.
And knowing that it’s okay not having everything figured out can help!
It’s okay to fail, it’s okay not to be successful right away, what is important is that you believe in yourself and to be consistent!
To sum up!
As you can see, self-confident people are also failing.
It doesn’t mean that everything is easy for them! They are struggling from time to time but the difference is that they are never giving up.
I want to tell you again that it’s okay that you don’t have everything figured out yet.
I know that I’m repeating myself but I read somewhere that it takes the human brain a few times to really remember something! 😉
Keep on taking action on a daily basis, keep on doing your best, believe in yourself and in your abilities eventually you will get there.
I’m 100% convinced of that! 🙂
To your self-confident SELF! 🙂